I KNOW IT IS LONG BUT PLZ GIVE ME HONEST ANSWERS & I'LL GIVE YOU 10 PTS & ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS YOU HAVE!!!!?

Call the guy. Get his home number, maybe his mom will answer and you can be like "Hey Mrs ____, me and your son are going golfing on Monday. I just wanted to introduce myself to you, anyways is (boy's name) available to talk?" Then you can get him on the phone and figure out what is up.